perf(render): redraw on demand and only changed cells

Rendering used to clear the whole canvas and redraw every cell on
every frame callback (~60 fps) even though the simulation ticks at
20 tps and starts paused, keeping CPU usage at ~85% while idle.

Split simulation timing out of redraw() into the event loop and
render only when displayed content can have changed (tick, painting,
pattern placement, preview movement, grid-line toggle, resize);
idle frames commit only a new frame callback. Repaint incrementally
by diffing the grid against a rendered-state snapshot per row and
redrawing just the changed cells, with damage limited to the
repainted bounding box.

Idle CPU drops to ~1% of one core; running frames render at tick
rate (~20 fps) at microsecond cost. Adds grid_copy() snapshot
helper with tests and archives the optimize-render-on-demand change
with the new on-demand-rendering spec.

openspec/changes/archive/2026-11-08-optimize-render-on-demand/.openspec.yaml

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+schema: spec-driven
+created: 2026-11-08